Hm, yes I think that sounds pretty plausible. I showed some Pew survey in the last post that said most people consider "ability to provide financially" as important for someone to be a "good husband" while way fewer say that's important for someone to be a "good wife". So if you're financially stressed (which generally makes relationship…
Hm, yes I think that sounds pretty plausible. I showed some Pew survey in the last post that said most people consider "ability to provide financially" as important for someone to be a "good husband" while way fewer say that's important for someone to be a "good wife". So if you're financially stressed (which generally makes relationships harder) you're more likely to see the underperforming husband as not doing his duty than in cases where the wife earns less.
Yeah, same. Also because if you earn a lot you know some of that is likely just luck based, not a sign that you’re necessarily a harder worker than him
Hm, yes I think that sounds pretty plausible. I showed some Pew survey in the last post that said most people consider "ability to provide financially" as important for someone to be a "good husband" while way fewer say that's important for someone to be a "good wife". So if you're financially stressed (which generally makes relationships harder) you're more likely to see the underperforming husband as not doing his duty than in cases where the wife earns less.
yes. If I earned good money and my husband earned less I would not care. But if we both earned little I would feel resentful of him
Yeah, same. Also because if you earn a lot you know some of that is likely just luck based, not a sign that you’re necessarily a harder worker than him