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EML's avatar

Yes and no, but people can also have sexual dysfunctions that they haven’t addressed or worked through, which you’d probably rather know about sooner than later (thinking of Charlotte on SATC finding out on her wedding night that her new husband has poorly treated ED)

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Regan's avatar

That's true. Good reference lol. And even if they're correlated they're not 100% correlated so seems worth making sure you do in fact have sexual chemistry at a reasonably early stage. But my reluctance to fully support this reasoning comes from the observation that sexual compatibility is not a constant anyways - through the course of a multi-decade relationship there will surely be ups and downs. So I wonder how predictive early sexual compatibility is for later sexual compatibility, probably somewhat predictive but is it like 90% predictive or more like 30%? I'm not sure.

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EML's avatar

I think it’s more about ruling out someone who you’re definitely *not* sexually compatible with

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