If I take 10 random women from some narrow cohort to which I belong (same employer, same college, same subdivision) it is highly likely that I can find one that will feel like a soulmate, "just made for me".
It won't be instant. I'll probably like 4 a little bit, but find one better, and some months in a relationship will mold both of us …
If I take 10 random women from some narrow cohort to which I belong (same employer, same college, same subdivision) it is highly likely that I can find one that will feel like a soulmate, "just made for me".
It won't be instant. I'll probably like 4 a little bit, but find one better, and some months in a relationship will mold both of us into soulmate material.
A decently workable marriage will then build upon that. At that point, think that some other woman is 20% better is most likely a delusion caused by some recent trouble in the marriage.
If I take 10 random women from some narrow cohort to which I belong (same employer, same college, same subdivision) it is highly likely that I can find one that will feel like a soulmate, "just made for me".
It won't be instant. I'll probably like 4 a little bit, but find one better, and some months in a relationship will mold both of us into soulmate material.
A decently workable marriage will then build upon that. At that point, think that some other woman is 20% better is most likely a delusion caused by some recent trouble in the marriage.